How to Kiss a Girl, How to Kiss a Boy

How to Kiss a Girl (or a Boy)

Kissing is arguably the most enjoyable pastime in human history. We seek it, we need it and no romance can start without it.

As we grow as a species (we reproduce, we teach, we grow families), it all starts with a kiss! Every romance, every marriage, every relationship starts with a kiss.

Unlike any other activities out there (like sports, arts, etc.), kissing requires little to no practice at all! It’s in our genes, our instincts. We just know how to do it. With little practice, you can become a really great kisser!

But remember, the biggest secret to kissing is, you have to kiss someone you like! You may kiss every stranger you meet in a bar, but without passion, all you’re doing is pressing lips with somebody. When there’s no passion, no attraction, no desire, it becomes boring! And you’ll be left feeling unfulfilled and disappointed.

Kissing is the purest way to show affectionand the most passionate way of saying “I love you.” The more attraction there is behind the kiss, the more fulfilling it will be. That’s why kissing justanybodyis notfun(and not a good idea too).

If you save those most passionate, most affectionate kisses for someone you really have feelings for, your kissing experience will be a hundred times more exciting (and a thousand times more fulfilling).

This article will discuss the three most popular types of kisses and give instructions on how to do it too.

The “Peck” or the “Smooch”

The peck or the smooch is the most common and most basic of kisses. It requires little to no practice at all! To do this, you need to:

Step 1: Face your partner at a passionate level (closer than you’d normally be if you were just talking to someone).

Step 2: Lean in slowly.

Step 3:  Pucker your lips and close your eyes as you’re slowly closing in.

Step 4:  Gently touch your partner’s lips and push in slowly.

Step 5:  Savor it for a little bit and gently pull away.

Step 6: As you pull away, slowly open your eyes and maintain direct eye contact with your partner to maintain the heat of the moment.

That’s it! Go ahead, give it a try!

The Open-Mouth Kiss

If you want to try something a little more adventurous, the “open-mouth kiss” is a great activityfor you.

Step 1:  Face your partner closely (like you would with a peck).

Step 2:  Lean in slowly.

Step 3: Tilt your head a bit to avoid bumping noses!

Step 4: Open your mouth a bit. Not too much, though(you are going for a kiss not a burger). Open your lips small enough just like you were going to drink from a soda bottle.

Step 5: Gently touch your partner’s lips. Your mouths should be diagonal to each other now.

Step 6:  You may open your mouth a little more as you kiss. And you may press a little harder (but not too hard!).

Step 7:  You may move your head slightly side to side as you slowly kiss them again (and again, and again). Remember to go slowly and savor in the passion of this kiss!

And now, everybody’s favorite little activity, the French Kiss! ( How to french kiss)

Step 1: Face your partner. Your faces should be passionately close just like you’ve learned with the peck and the open-mouth kiss.

Step 2: Lean in slowly and tilt your head a bit (just like in the open-mouth kiss)

Step 3:  Open you lips a bit (see the open-mouth kiss above)

Step 4: Gently make contact with your partner’s lips (your mouths should be diagonal to each other by now)

Step 5:  As you’re kissing, open your lips more.

Step 6: Gently press a little bit further against your partner’s lips.

Step 7:  And now to the critical part (that makes this kiss so awesome), slide your tongue inside your partner’s mouth. Don’t force it down there! Slowly and playfully move it across the lips at first, then the tongue.

Step 8:  Probably by now, you partner is doing the same thing with his/her tongue too. Playfully slide your tongues against each other, and gently explore your partner’s mouth. Remember to take it slow (slower is hotter and more luscious!). As long as you take it slow, you may explore and play a bit with this kiss if you want.

There you have it, your foundation to becoming a great kisser. Practice a little bit and you’ll do awesome! Have a great kissing weekend!

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