How to Get Her to Say “Yes” to a Date | How do you ask a girl out | How to talk to a girl
Asking out a girl is never easy, particularly if you are a little on the shy side. But there comes a time when you have to be bold and step up to the plate or you’ll forever be talking about the “one that got away” or wondering “what if”.
Be bold! Women want a guy who can take charge; that she can lean on. It is OK to be nice and sweet but you have to show her that you desire her. Women admire men that have the confidence to ask them out. Flirt with her. When you see her, make eye contact and smile. The more girls you talk to, the more confident you will become and that will definitely shine through. Live in the moment and enjoy talking to her. Just don’t get so relaxed that you say something that you will later regret.
Make an effort to be nice. It will impress her if you open doors and pull out chairs for her. Be considerate and show her that you’re going to be willing to go the extra mile to be nice to her. Your goal is give her a taste of how you’d treat her if you were a couple. Compliment her; let her know the things you like about her. The more unique the compliment is the better. If she has changed anything like the way she wears her hair, for instance, let her know that you have noticed. Complement her on her shoes – women love to see that you have noticed a small thing like her taste in shoes.
Break the touch barrier without being sleazy about it. Hold her coat so she can put it on. Offer your hand to help her walk across uneven ground or to lead her through a crowd. These are good ways to get closer to the girl you like without creeping her out. But, if you see, the slightest hint that you are making her uncomfortable, stop immediately.
Most women say that they want a man who will listen to her. Will you be that man? If you think that you might be, that is something that you will have to prove early on. When you are with her, let her talk and ask some intelligent questions to keep her talking. Use open questions; these are questions that require more than a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to answer. For instance, if you ask her if she likes sport, she can answer in one word. However, if you phrase the question differently it can open up a new talking point. So you would say something like “What kind of sport do you like?” Talking less and listening more will impress her very much.
Be honest from the beginning because the truth always has a way of coming out. To avoid the painful effects of hidden truths, never tell her that you live in a huge house with a pool when in reality, you live in a one bedroom apartment. Show her that she can depend on you. Everyone has a past and you can’t change yours. You can, however, make the choice to be honest and upfront with her.
Be sure to have your own life. Women tend to be more interested in men that have interests and hobbies of their own that they can talk about.
Take a good look into the mirror; would you want to go out with you? If you look a bit disheveled and scruffy, consider buying a new outfit and smartening yourself up a bit
Walk tall when you are out and about, looking at the ground when you walk will make you stoop. Smile at people, look friendly and approachable.
The most important thing in getting her to go out with you is to ASK. She can’t say yes unless you ask!
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